Good-bye to Llanview

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I am very sad, as today was the last day that my favorite soap opera, One Life to Livehad aired. It ran for 43 years, how­ever I did not watch it until around 25 years ago (I could not have watched it for 43 years regard­less because I have not been around for that long). But I pretty much grew up with the show.

I never really got into too many other soaps, except for All My Chil­dren very briefly– which also went off the air four months ago, but because I never devel­oped an attach­ment to it, I did not care other than the fact that ABC has done every­thing to ruin these shows. The only one stand­ing is Gen­eral Hos­pi­tal but I never cared for that one. Besides I would be sur­prised if that one stuck around for much longer. All because ABC wants to replace these soaps with these cheap shows like The Chew and The Rev­o­lu­tion (which of course is replac­ing my beloved One Live to Live) which will attract noth­ing but low rat­ings. I will never watch any­thing on ABC again because of this, and other OLTL fans that I have com­mu­ni­cated with say the same thing. In fact some are prepar­ing to boy­cott ABC but that will be noth­ing but wasted energy.

But One Life to Live def­i­nitely was filled with engag­ing and dra­matic sto­ries, some involv­ing return­ing from the dead;serious acci­dents and mirac­u­lous recov­er­ies; mul­ti­ple per­son­al­i­ties; rape; ser­ial mur­ders and mur­der mys­ter­ies that drag on for months (ok that got on my nerves); teen preg­nan­cies and more. I will miss Viki, Clint, Bo, Jes­sica, Natlie, John, Todd, Blair, Starr, Nora, Matthew, Gigi, Rex, Shane and more. The finale was much bet­ter than the finale that All My Chil­dren had the day it went off air in Sep­tem­ber. But we were still left with a cliffhanger that will trig­ger our imag­i­na­tions. What will hap­pen next? Espe­cially now after John arrest­ing Todd while he was mak­ing love with Blair for the mur­der of Vic­tor Lord Jr, while Vic­tor Lord Jr was very much alive but kid­napped by that nut Ali­son Perkins? We will never know, thanks to ABC being cheap.

Good-bye One Life to Live. You were a big part of my life, and sad to see you go.

A Look Back at 2011


I have to say 2011 for me was a year of truth and pro­duc­tiv­ity. I have to say it was much bet­ter for me than 2010, which to me was a year of putting in a lot of labor with get­ting lit­tle results. But per­haps the les­son for that year was for me to be patient because it has been slowly pay­ing off.

I know that many peo­ple view this past year as being the year of upheavals. And it really did seem like there were more nat­ural dis­as­ters hap­pen­ing such as the Tsunami in Japan, the earth­quakes, and dead birds and fish, etc. It was tragic. But this blog post is about how I was affected in 2011 on a per­sonal level.

This past year I made some dis­cov­er­ies about myself. I dis­cov­ered that if I wanted to be suc­cess­ful finan­cially and in other ways, I needed to get bet­ter at goal set­ting, orga­niz­ing, being more pos­i­tive and did gain a much bet­ter under­stand­ing of Law of Attraction.

I also dis­cov­ered that I needed to scat­ter my eggs into dif­fer­ent bas­kets instead of putting them into one. But at the same time not to over-extend myself. I did release my sec­ond book this year, “Stars Behind the Tor­tured Soul” and it did bet­ter than my first book, “My Five Auto­bi­ogra­phies” which was released in 2009 (but will be re-released some­time down the road). How­ever, instead of just rely­ing on that to bring me the income that I wanted, I needed to delve into inter­net mar­ket­ing and I did! I learned what I needed to about inter­net mar­ket­ing (and will always been learn­ing), cre­ated my own inter­net mar­ket­ing com­pany this past sum­mer and it was the best thing I did! Because I had done this, I not only started receiv­ing more cash flow but gained con­fi­dence, and met some awe­some busi­ness minded peo­ple who I plan to be work­ing with in 2012.

At the same time, I had lost a few “good” friends this year in very harsh ways which had left me pretty heart bro­ken at first. But when I look at the big pic­ture, these losses turned out to be bless­ings in dis­guise regard­less of how painful it was. It just meant that I am in a dif­fer­ent place now, and these indi­vid­u­als no longer have a place in my life. I really do wish them well even though their actions were quite ruthless.

Any­way, I have more goals to accom­plish in 2012, includ­ing the re-launch of “Stars Behind the Tor­tured Soul” in dig­i­tal form, and will be offer­ing a course in past life astrol­ogy before March. And I will start see­ing my hopes, wishes and dreams come true. Cheers for a pros­per­ous new year for you.

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Around August of 2010 I met a lady (actu­ally today I would call her a vicious ani­mal) in a spiritual/esoteric com­mu­nity and we con­nected very well. I thought she was funny, sweet and I believed she had turned out to be a good friend. When­ever I had needed to vent about some­thing, she always lis­tened and gave advice. And vise versa. We also helped one another out with cer­tain things at times. How­ever, once two other women joined this com­mu­nity, things started to offi­cially go down­hill. How­ever at first, like how most things start out that appear to go faulty, was sub­tle. We started speak­ing less and less.

In all fair­ness, I was busy get­ting ready for the book launch (and it will be relaunched next year elec­tron­i­cally), and she was busy with her home stud­ies. But I could not help but feel that the con­nec­tion was dying and the sin­cer­ity of what­ever friend­ship was really left was also dying down. And very early this year I was hav­ing per­sonal issues and when­ever I spoke to her about it, I could tell she could not be both­ered. So I got the mes­sage, started to lay off and fig­ured per­haps she was going through some things of her own. She insisted not at all except for her step mother being ill. But the weird thing was, she seemed to have time for the oth­ers in the com­mu­nity. And it got to a point where I cared less any­way since I was busy set­ting up my inter­net business.

So dur­ing the sum­mer I real­ized that there was really no friend­ship left between me and her. She did text me a birth­day wish but I could tell it was so insin­cere. And we did speak a few times before the fall. But again there was no friend­ship left. I accepted it. I fig­ured it was one of those sit­u­a­tions where “peo­ple just come into your life for a rea­son, a sea­son, or a life­time” and it was obvi­ously for a very short sea­son. So I felt bad about it but fig­ured it was just that. But at the same time, in the back of my mind I felt like she had down­right rejected me (some­thing that she used to say she would never do) and only stuck with those who came into the com­mu­nity later on. It’s fine I mean I have been rejected many times before so it was noth­ing new for me lol. I can’t deny it did not hurt though. So just as I was about to let it go… sev­eral peo­ple who knew her let me in on some nasty secrets that she was keeping.

Appar­ently she was not only no longer inter­ested in what­ever friend­ship we had. She was say­ing nasty, vicious things behind my back and even turn­ing peo­ple away from me and my work. But things like this ALWAYS have a way of com­ing out. These peo­ple who told me about this apol­o­gized to me as well because at first they were influ­enced by her. How­ever, they did not wake up until they real­ized that she was abus­ing them too. And boy it angered me, as I felt vio­lated, and down­right betrayed. I mean I did some won­der­ful things for her too! But that never counts.

So I sent her one heck of a nasty email after find­ing this out. I mean I called her every name in the book and had no regrets after doing it. If any­thing it felt good to unload onto her. So did she apol­o­gize? Nope. Not at all. She tried not only fir­ing back but after I told some oth­ers who she knew about the let­ter I had sent– she gave lame excuses for her actions and kept blam­ing me. Ahhh how sweet. Karma started to bite her in the butt. Not just because of me find­ing out what she has been doing behind my back– but how oth­ers found out about what she did to them, all at once. So she was not at all sorry for her actions, she was only sorry she got caught! That is why she cre­ated these so called excuses for her actions.

And one day those in her lit­tle clique will be burned by her too and they will feel utterly foolish.

And yeah I mean I am still hurt but I am hardly the vic­tim here. I am again very care­ful with who to trust. But the fact of the mat­ter is, I can­not cut myself off from every­one either. So there is a risk it will hap­pen again. And I will put it this way.…she knows it is in her best inter­est to never mess with me again icon smile Not at all Sorry for their Actions, Just Sorry they Got Caught . And I want to look at it as a bless­ing in dis­guise. I don’t want to be asso­ci­ated with nasty peo­ple like her. Big changes for the bet­ter are hap­pen­ing and there is no use for her in the midst of it any­way! Also I want to men­tion that it is very sad to know that so few peo­ple move beyond high school.

Fool Me Once, Shame on You– Fool Me Twice, Shame on Me!

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Well I think ALL of us have been fooled. Not just once but twice, or even more, by the same per­son! That is the only way we learn some harsh lessons. Some take longer to learn that les­son than oth­ers. I tend to be a slow learner when it comes to that. The weird thing is I am intu­itive for the most part. But hey maybe I like to see just the good in oth­ers and then I end up get­ting burned as a result. I have been known to give sec­ond chances, or even third chances.

Will I con­tinue to give those who screwed me over once a sec­ond chance? Hon­estly, I am not sure. I mean on one hand, I real­ize that no one is per­fect, and since I am also not per­fect how can I expect any­thing more from any­one else? I mean peo­ple make mis­takes. But at the same time, lets refer to the title of this blog post. Fool me once, shame on you– fool me twice, shame on me! Think­ing of that, I am less inclined to give sec­ond chances. But I think it would have to depend on a lot of things. If a “friend” attempted to steal from me, or spread nasty lies about me, I would say def­i­nitely not. But if a friend said some­thing extremely hurt­ful and he or she was hav­ing a very bad day, and filled with stress– after an apol­ogy I may con­sider giv­ing that per­son a sec­ond chance. But if it were to hap­pen again, say­onara! But one thing I can promise is.. I may give some­one a sec­ond chance depend­ing on the sit­u­a­tion but as far as I am con­cerned, no one deserves a third chance! So it would be, “fool me once– shame on you; fool me twice– shame on me; fool me three times– where is my dig­nity? May as well just sell my soul to the devil”.

If some­one screws you over twice, you would KNOW that you can­not have some­one who does that in your life. And I have def­i­nitely learned my les­son since I had a “friend” who may not be all there in her mind… but after she had flipped out on me once, I accepted her back into my life after an apol­ogy and she seemed incred­i­bly sin­cere. Lo and behold she did it again and she did some hor­ri­ble things as well, and like I said she is not in her right mind. Even if she apol­o­gizes, I will never, ever accept it and she can for­get about being accepted into my life again. (And I also know she is con­stantly read­ing my blog, which I have not updated for a while because I AM BUSY but I know she is lurk­ing). So… you know who you are, and I know you are read­ing this. I hope it sinks into your thick skull so if you are think­ing of con­tact­ing me again, dream on and don’t act on it. Because if you do, do you remem­ber what I needed to do last time? I would do it again in a heart­beat if you attempted to con­tact me again. So since I know you are read­ing my blog, I am onto you sweet­heart. You can for­get about a third chance! I am not will­ing to sell my soul to the devil which is you. You messed up for life, deal with the consequences.

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I am not per­fect. In fact I am far from per­fect. I make mis­takes and I make a lot of mis­takes. There is always room for improve­ment in my life. I am work in progress. But at least I have the guts to admit it! And if I don’t like some­thing or even some­one, I will not hes­i­tate to say it. I just won’t name names out in the open so I can save myself a law­suit. I don’t know, maybe I can be too blunt at times espe­cially if some­one rubs me the wrong way. I real­ize no one is per­fect either, and how could I expect oth­er­wise since I am not? But I will tell you what trait in an indi­vid­ual I DO NOT tolerate.

Before I go on, I am not even talk­ing about gen­eral hypocrisy such as envi­ron­men­tal activists secretly throw­ing lit­ter on the ground. Okay that is annoy­ing and I do not like it. How­ever if that is the worst trait that some­one has, I can look beyond it. Who am I to judge? I am sure I have said one thing and have done the oppo­site as well.

But this is what really gets to me. Those who have a “holier than thou” atti­tude On yes those types REALLY rub me the wrong way. Espe­cially if these peo­ple come off as “spir­i­tual” or are the ones that are pro­fess­ing “love and peace”. They can never admit they are not per­fect like the rest of us. They will always find faults in oth­ers and will make it seem as if you had com­mit­ted the worst crime over some­thing incred­i­bly benign. And they will always add that they have a degree in psy­chol­ogy or law, and an x num­ber of years of expe­ri­ence in a par­tic­u­lar field to back up their argu­ment. They will always find an excuse to say you have the prob­lem and they don’t. And the most amus­ing part about these peo­ple is that they are actu­ally the LEAST per­fect of all! They are the ones that are the most inse­cure and unhappy, are heav­ily in denial, and need­less to say they have a lot of inner work to do! They are the ones who need to take a good look in the mir­ror and real­ize that they are any­thing but “holier than thou”. I would think that deep down they know that, or maybe not. They may have trained them­selves to believe their own “truths” or rather lies for so long they really do believe they are perfect.

Yes, I did have a run in with one ear­lier. This woman I had met through a mutual friend sev­eral weeks ago. She had a lot in com­mon with me. I did like her at first but she did have her moments of tak­ing things the wrong way. I sus­pected she got offended eas­ily so I made sure I was care­ful with my words with her. But I did not try hard enough appar­ently. This morn­ing I had told her some­thing quite benign and she twisted it right around, put words into my mouth, and told every­one in a group where we were in every­thing I told her in con­fi­dence. She made a mock­ery out of me. Well tried to any­way. In the end, she ended up appear­ing as the fool and because I walked away I came out being the good one. How­ever, one mis­take I made while I was hav­ing my argu­ment with her was call­ing her an idiot. I don’t regret call­ing her that for the sake of her. I really could have said to worse to her if I wanted to. But the real­ity is, I shot myself in the foot by call­ing her names. Obvi­ously she was very hurt by that com­ment and things esca­lated after that. I called her an idiot, and she all of a sud­den became even more “holier than thou”.

I may be still quite upset by what she did, but it sure helps to blog icon smile Hiding Something Behind that Holier than Thou Attitude? Even­tu­ally she will come into a sit­u­a­tion that will really knock her to her knees and make her real­ize that she is any­thing but “holier than thou”.


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Social media expert and author, Trey Pen­ning­ton com­mit­ted sui­cide this morn­ing just out­side of a church in South Car­olina. I did not know him very well, but from what lit­tle I could see– it “appeared” he had been liv­ing a good life. He appeared to be liv­ing the life that every­one would want! He was pop­u­lar, always seemed upbeat, he seemed suc­cess­ful. But appear­ances obvi­ously can fool you.

Appar­ently he not only was going through a very bit­ter divorce, but he suf­fered from depres­sion. While he was going through a stormy time, he let his depres­sion get the best of him. He did not see the light at the end of the tun­nel. Unfor­tu­nately, he took his life. Peo­ple, please take depres­sion seri­ously. It can kill. What hap­pened to Trey Pen­ning­ton is proof of that.

Depres­sion is a Real Disease

Peo­ple with depres­sion have to con­stantly work at being “happy”. They con­stantly have to fake it until they know they can make it. Even if they are on the right anti-depressants for it, it does not cure depres­sion. It is very dif­fi­cult for them to just dust them­selves off and keep going espe­cially while endur­ing a dif­fi­cult time. How do I know this? Because I have it. I have had it since the day I was born. There is depres­sion on my father’s side.

And to make things worse, I was that kid in school who was “dif­fer­ent”, over­weight, had acne, and was bru­tally picked on. Espe­cially in junior high. One night when I was 12, after hav­ing a hor­ri­ble day at school I wanted to end my life. My mother was also angry with me for some rea­son that par­tic­u­lar night. I was sick of life and took a pair of scis­sors and wanted to slit my wrists with it. How­ever, right before I attempted it, my mother walked into my room and wanted to dis­cuss things with me. She had no idea what I was about to do. And many other times as a young teen I had thoughts of sui­cide but never attempted it again. I was not sure if I ever had the guts to do it.

Through out most of my life, I felt like I was there to exist. I rarely felt joy. I never really lived. I just was.… there. I believed I was unwor­thy, and peo­ple ignored me. I believed that only poverty was in the cards for me. Cer­tain life cir­cum­stances had nearly put me over the edge again such as suf­fer­ing from post par­tum depres­sion (and yes, women who have a his­tory of depres­sion are at high risk for that) as well as hav­ing to face up to my son hav­ing autism almost five years ago. Some­times, life truly sucks. Espe­cially when you have depression.

How­ever, the older and wiser I have become, I know that even dur­ing the dark­est moments that sui­cide is just not an option. Like Win­ston Churchill had said “when you are going through hell, keep going”. I could not do that to my fam­ily. And I cer­tainly owe it to myself to find out what hap­pi­ness really is.

Over the past year, I have made some impor­tant dis­cov­er­ies about myself and my needs. I think what shook me up was read­ing an arti­cle online about how sui­cide rates among mid­dle aged women had spiked dras­ti­cally over the past few years. The rea­son being is that these women have worked very hard, rais­ing chil­dren and tak­ing care of their hus­bands while feel­ing extremely under-appreciated. They took care of every­one else while their needs were neglected. When they reached their mid-life cri­sis point, it hit them like a ton of bricks, they saw no hope for the future and took their lives. I feared that if I kept putting my needs on the back burner while deal­ing with depres­sion on a daily basis, I could snap too. Quite eas­ily. This is some­thing I do not want to find out.

This made me real­ize that instead of putting every­one else’s needs ahead of mine, I need to attend to mine first. Some­times you have to be a bit self­ish in order to help oth­ers. How can you be of any help if you are feel­ing even more unhappy and depleted? Peo­ple with depres­sion often times become mar­tyrs. All that does in the end is leave you feel­ing even more depressed, angry and resent­ful. I used to be a mar­tyr. But over the last few months espe­cially I have dis­cov­ered my bound­aries. I used to whine about peo­ple tak­ing advan­tage of me. Well I was the one to blame for that because I did not acknowl­edge my boundaries.

I may still have my daily bat­tles with depres­sion, and have my moments of feel­ing unwor­thy. But the dif­fer­ence is now, when I catch myself think­ing that way, I remind myself that I am just as wor­thy of being happy and achiev­ing my goals and dreams like any­one else is. I know I need to take bet­ter care of myself to feel bet­ter as well. I know what I want and I have dreams that I know need to come true. I cre­ated a vision board. Bris­tol board with pic­tures of the things that rep­re­sent my goals and wishes. I soak those images in every night before I go to bed. Since I have done that, I have felt slightly more peace­ful within and have been com­ing across great oppor­tu­ni­ties that very well could lead me to achiev­ing what I want. I owe it to myself to allow myself achieve the good things in life, even if that means I have to take care of my own needs first. For any­one, espe­cially for those who have depres­sion, that is a necessity.

Per­haps Trey Pen­ning­ton felt depleted and under-appreciated on top of deal­ing with depres­sion. If that was the case, no won­der he snapped.

But if you sense some­one is going through depres­sion, be there for that per­son. Being sup­port­ive and car­ing can save lives.

Law of Attraction: Does it Really Work?

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I am sure many peo­ple have heard of The Secret. When I did read the book, I was in a very bad place in my life sev­eral years ago. I believed at the time that per­haps there was truth to some of it. But I believed the major­ity was bunk. I was in no shape to prac­tice it. Today, while I am thank­fully at a much bet­ter place in my life, I actu­ally think there is more truth to The Secret than before. How­ever, I have to say, not by much. I still think that a lot of it is bunk.

At this time, lets focus on the legit­i­mate points about The Secret, or any kind of Law of Attrac­tion book:

1. When you shift into a pos­i­tive mind­frame, you will attract pos­i­tive peo­ple and weed out the neg­a­tive ones (or inspire them), and you will attract bet­ter things in gen­eral. All because your vibra­tion is higher.

2. When you are think­ing more pos­i­tively, you will want to weed out junk food (except for the occa­sional choco­late treat) and pos­si­bly even lose weight naturally.

3. You will start to enjoy life and snap out of the vic­tim mode.

4. Make note of what you are thank­ful for instead of focus­ing what is wrong in your life.

Those are legit­i­mate points about the Law of Attrac­tion, and THOSE do work. What the Law of Attrac­tion is, when you think a thought, speak a word and act in a cer­tain way, the ener­gies go out to the Uni­verse. There­fore if you are think­ing neg­a­tive thoughts all of the time, you will keep run­ning into neg­a­tive peo­ple and attract­ing more neg­a­tiv­ity. That includes on focus­ing what you don’t want in life. Because focus­ing on what you don’t want will keep the ener­gies going and will attract more things in life you sim­ply don’t want. This is why it is impor­tant to focus the things you DO want and believe what is very impor­tant to you, will come. For instance, you start a busi­ness and have a pos­i­tive mind­set. You will nat­u­rally attract good mar­keters to help you mar­ket the busi­ness the right way, and sooner rather than later you will be successful.

How­ever, a friend of mine and I were dis­cussing it a few days back. What turns peo­ple off about the Law of Attrac­tion is that there are so many so-called gurus hyp­ing it.

They make out­ra­geous and false promises that if you fol­low the Law of Attrac­tion, you can cure dis­eases, and basi­cally have every­thing go your way if you visu­al­ize it. No, sorry I do not at all buy into that.

I firmly believe that when we incar­nate into this earth we are given cer­tain chal­lenges that will not dis­ap­pear even if you use the Law of Attrac­tion. And some­times life just deals you a dif­fi­cult hand. But the thing to remem­ber is, if we fol­low the Law of Attrac­tion, we can make our lives bet­ter and be hap­pier regard­less of our situation.

Goal Setting Strategy

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Goal set­ting breeds success.

Goal set­ting strat­egy is a com­mon prac­tice among suc­cess­ful peo­ple. Suc­cess­ful peo­ple know that peo­ple must be proac­tive instead of reac­tive. If you are already suc­cess­ful and want to stay that way, goal set­ting is def­i­nitely one way of being in control.

Goals give us direc­tion and objec­tive enhanc­ing our moti­va­tion and focus. It allows us to look beyond our actions and see the progress that has made. This expec­ta­tion pro­vides us with fuel to fur­ther our drive to reach our goals.

The strat­egy of goal set­ting is an influ­en­tial aspect of every research and prac­tice in improv­ing performance.

Goal Set­ting Strategy

There are a few goal set­ting strate­gies that should be con­sid­ered first before actu­ally out­lin­ing goals. Visu­al­ize this strat­egy and pic­ture the story of the bucket that never appears to fill up:

1. Core val­ues

The most impor­tant goal set­ting strat­egy is to make a deci­sion on what is impor­tant to you. If you can iden­tify your main val­ues you can decide what core projects to set that your life should have pri­mary focus on.

Visu­al­ize that these core val­ues are the rocks that would be the first to be fit down in the bucket.

2. Sec­ondary Values

We could divide the core val­ues of our life into dif­fer­ent aspects. We can then find sec­ondary val­ues to com­ple­ment the core val­ues that you have iden­ti­fied previously.

Imag­ine that these sec­ondary val­ues are the peb­bles that will fit down into the bucket in the spaces that are between the rocks.

3. Daily Activ­i­ties

Another very impor­tant goal set­ting strat­egy would be to iden­tify actual daily activ­i­ties that con­tribute towards our mul­ti­tude of projects. These daily activ­i­ties actu­ally com­ple­ment our sec­ondary values.

Imag­ine that these daily activ­i­ties are the sand that would fill out the spaces left behind by the rocks and the pebbles.

4. The Action that We Take

The bucket is already filled with rocks. At the same time there are still some very small cracks or crevice that needs fill­ing. That is the water. Even a tiny crevice could be filled-up by water.

This extra space that is avail­able to water is also the most sen­si­tive part of goal set­ting strat­egy.
This rep­re­sents the very next action steps that we can take.

Remem­ber that the big projects would only hap­pen by the small action steps that we take. Remem­ber to dis­card the things that do not truly con­tribute to your core and sec­ondary values.

Always be mind­ful of the lit­tle strate­gies that you could use around you. It could be a book for learn­ing, a paper for writ­ing, Pock­etPC use, ear­phones for lis­ten­ing to train­ing audios, etc. You can incor­po­rate var­i­ous medi­ums to effec­tively take action on your goals.

The Strat­egy to Success

The goal set­ting strate­gies men­tioned above will make sure that you are always con­nected, mind­ful, and focused to the big­ger picture.

Try to do it all. You can do this by break­ing every­thing down into a hier­ar­chy and make the most of every moment. It would always fit every­thing together by size, loca­tion, or by movement.

Peo­ple who try to pri­or­i­tize by level of impor­tance, and who try to sched­ule spe­cific activ­i­ties to time, usu­ally fail. This is because of the many dis­trac­tions, inter­rup­tions, even changes in a per­sons mood and energy lev­els, or new inspi­ra­tions or projects that reveal them­selves as you move through time.

Try hard to pri­or­i­tize or else you would get con­fused and worst be over­loaded. Do this by keep­ing a run­ning list of next step activ­i­ties. Remem­ber that willpower does not last long but pure intent together with prepa­ra­tion and orga­ni­za­tion allows you to do things you have never thought you could do.

I have made a decision

1079846 platinum mic I have made a decision

Social media and inter­net mar­ket­ing is great. Heck I lit­er­ally like yes­ter­day opened up a busi­ness that designs blogs, posts, SEO and social media pages! And believe me SEO works! My page about my recent book, Stars Behind the Tor­tured Soul: Heal­ing Past-Life Mem­o­ries Through Astrol­ogy, and about past lives and rein­car­na­tion went from a PR0 last week to a PR3 today! I was really thrilled. How­ever, the fact of the mat­ter is, old style mar­ket­ing is just as effec­tive. In fact in some ways it is more!

I have decided to put an ad in Radio-Television Inter­view Report because if I get radio sta­tions inter­ested in my book and any of the stuff I can offer, then that will only deliver more expo­sure. Espe­cially if I am inter­viewed in the morn­ing or after­noon while the major­ity of peo­ple are stuck lis­ten­ing to the radio in their cars dur­ing traf­fic jams! So lets see what ends up hap­pen­ing with it. Hope­fully I will get a lot of inter­est or I will end up with none. But the guys who work there insist that many radio sta­tions are inter­ested in top­ics hav­ing to do with rein­car­na­tion, astrol­ogy, and any­thing esoteric.

Book sign­ings as it is will not drum up enough inter­est in the begin­ning because what if no one knows about it? I could show up for a book sign­ing and only have five peo­ple come by. That would be a let down. This way, with radio, espe­cially the big­ger sta­tions (which should come later since I need to get used to being on radio more) will have more of an audi­ence lis­ten­ing and THEN I can do the book sign­ings. This way if more peo­ple know about my work, and are inter­ested I would hope to have more than five peo­ple coming.

Again inter­net mar­ket­ing is great, but old style mar­ket­ing is still more effec­tive than what peo­ple give credit for. I will have my ads run­ning as of Sep­tem­ber to Decem­ber, and lets see what hap­pens after that.

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Okay guys this is going to be huge!! Read up.

I have been involved with many oppor­tu­ni­ties that have failed me but this one is it! Okay just read up first.

1. We are in soft prelaunch mean­ing you can get in early.
2. All it involves is a one time $30.00 fee to get in via Alert­Pay or STP.
3. You can earn $20, $50, $75 or $300, $500, $5,000 and $20,000 repeat­edly!!
4. The great thing is, the com­pany pro­motes any­thing you want!
5. YOU DO NOT NEED TO SPONSOR! But if you do, you get an extra $4.00 for any­one who you recruit personally.

A set (3) of 2x2 cyclers…Then into the World’s #1 Travel Oppor­tu­nity ($250 value)

You are prob­a­bly won­der­ing why this is dif­fer­ent from all of the cyclers being launched.

The answer is easy. Every time some­one cycles any of the three cyclers, they will earn extra posi­tions in the first cycler.
That helps push other mem­bers, includ­ing your re-entries through the dif­fer­ent phases and this just works! No ques­tions asked.
Any of your new posi­tions are added in the weak­est spot within the whole com­pany sys­tem. Your per­sonal recruits as well as their recruits, will fol­low you through the dif­fer­ent phases of your ini­tial position.

This is going to be very long last­ing and make EVERYONE WHO IS IN THIS SYSTEM very happy!!

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